By understanding the stages and the process of adoption reunion and some of the pitfalls, you will ensure a better outcome. Educate yourself on adoption reunion. Talk to others in support groups who may have reunited.Each and every adoption reunion is unique and for this reason it is difficult to encapsulate all that can be involved in an adoption reunion. Search and reunion can be complicated whether you are an adoptee, a birth parent, or an adoptive parent. We strongly suggest exploring the idea of an adoption reunion be done through an openly communicative process